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Reassurance

This image calms me down a lot; though it is just a drawing of a warm touch between two persons, it has lots of meaning to me; it reflects how human contact can be so important, and how reassuring it could offer. In this image, the artist wants to send a powerful and deep message about the importance of ” …

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Motivating Myself and Others

Football, like all other sports, needs self-motivation as well as the ability to motivate others; such as your team members. Not only do sports need that, but also other fields; such as organizations, families; in addition to other groups of people; for example, the team running the hospitals etc.  The athletes, such as football players, know that in order to …

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Listener

Your perspective has to be changed from ‘How do I see this person?’ to ‘What can I do for this person?’ Listening requires paying attention to the speaker and providing feedback through reflecting, clarifying and summarizing in order to increase your own understanding, help the speaker to clarify his own feelings as well as reassuring the speaker that you are …

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Active

“Active”, in general, means to produce; to be involved in action or movement; to be engaged in service; especially in the armed forces like “Active Duty ”. However, in ALARM team, we practice it in our own way. Active stands for the first letter in our slogan. ACTIVE for us means …. being there for the people who need us…..listening with our …

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Acceptable

To be acceptable , reject your fear : ” The fear of rejection very often gets the better of us”. Get into somebody else’s shoes for a while and put on your thinking hat to understand the position that the other person is in. What would you have done in that situation that he is in? Develop empathy and curate …

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Real Meaning Of Being Free

“ Suddenly he fell into this world viewing like a sample of the sick , a hospital full of all sorts of illnesses, prisons full of criminals and convicts , a battle field covered with dead bodies , a wrecked fleet in the ocean , a nation suffering from tyranny and starvation or plague. The earth turns its other side …

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Living With An Empty Love Tank

Hunger for Love ( Part 2 : Living With An Empty Love Tank  ) (Reasons behind Fake Love) We ended up our first part from this series with this question: But what if the child’s needs were not met? What danger do we carry to our relationships when this hunger for Basic Love is not fulfilled? If the relationship with …

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Our Need For Basic Love

Hunger for Love ( Part 1 : Our Need For Basic Love ) ( Psychological Need for Love ) How do we develop our sense of personal worth? Why do we need to be in loving relationships?  & why we end up hurting ourselves in our relationships? What real love is ? Is it emotions or something else? In our first …

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Am I Accepted ?

*Have you ever experienced the feeling of rejection? *Have you ever felt that you are hungry for love and acceptance? Most probably you did; may be as early as being a child among peers and later also. No doubt that was hurting; sometimes it’s hard to forget such situations or life periods, but do you know what hurts more? Actually …

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Love VS Freedom

A girl with a pet canary, does she love it? Of course she does. Then why would not she let it out of the cage? As the saying goes “If you love something let it go. If it comes back to you, it’s yours forever. If it doesn’t, it was never meant to be.” Because she knows it will never …

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Broken

Are you going thru difficult times these days? Do you keep asking yourself how things suddenly turned upside down although everything was going just fine? Are you tired from trying to restore a broken relationship with someone you really love? Do you feel lonely & lost? . We keep asking : what have I done wrong ? Why he/she has …

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Loved & Accepted

Hunger for Love (Part 3 : Loved & Accepted ) Countless men and women live through the anguish and despair of broken relationships, others may accept entering abusing relationships as ” To a hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet“. “ Aren’t you, like me, hoping that some person, thing, or event will come along to give you that final feeling …

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Christmas Is Acceptance

The most amazing idea about Christmas is the fact that God descended from His throne to live among people, be one of them, take their flesh and share their history. The idea of a Great God who had humbled Himself to be a man would enlighten our minds to understand God more; be able to know the value of a …

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Respect Is The Way He Loves Us

“ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ”  ( 1 Corinthians 13 : 4-7 ) Putting others’ …

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Restored

Broken & separated,  2 main results which are deeply ingrained in our fallen nature as an inevitable consequence to the sin of Adam & Eve when they’ve decided to disobey God. Adam chose to blindly follow his wife rather than God’s commandment; thinking that what God didn’t really mean what He said to him & his wife; therefore once Adam …

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